So I went for a short walk and thought about this post and realized that to everyone but me it probably came across as someone who's just bitching about the current relationship between the aforementioned communities. I didn't intend it for it to be so. Think of it as more of a problem statement.
Both sides seem to agree on what the problem is and to some extent the solution. We primarily disagree on the root cause. The more i thought about it, aside from the Obama-praise, we tend to agree. For example, my local permaculture guild is trying to get laws changed to allow for things like urban chickens within city limits and i'm certainly cool with that.
Maybe I should start going to meetings and see what it's all about.