SW: Thanks! I'll go check them out the next time I get to go bra shopping. That means I have to go to the mall, though. Ugh...
I'll look into the custom bras as well, but I just don't see how they would support me without the underwire.
I really wish more men would realize how hard it is to carry around these big boulders some of us have. A while back, a (male) doctor told me I need to lose 10 pounds to be at my idea weight. I looked down at my chest, looked up at him, and said "Can I start by losing some of this?" The poor man blushed.
If you are going to have a bra fitting done, be sure it is done right. The first time I had one done, this young woman did it and she had no idea what she was doing. She took one measurement (they're supposed to take two or three) at the wrong place (I didn't know that then) and told me I was a 30. I wasn't a 30 in high school! She then proceeded to keep going up in cup size until she found one with enough wiggle room to force it to close. Not only could I not breathe, but the girls were falling out the front! She then told me I was a 30 GG.
Needless to say, I didn't go back there, much less buy any of their bras. And no; I'm not a 30 GG. I'm a 34 DD -BIG difference.